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Yes, we all have experienced those nights when we walk into a party, club or bar and feel very insignificant. There’s always that one girl who stands out in the crowd. We all know her. We envy her. We all want to be her. She’s the one who has guys lining up to buy her a drink and never has to stand alone.

We all want to be this woman but how? It’s simple. We’ve already heard the cliche term “beauty comes from within” but the beauty within won’t get you that hot guy to notice you.

So now, we are faced with a challenge. What attracts guys? Why do almost all guys drool over Angelina Jolie, but just think that Jennifer Garnier is “cute?” We’ve all seen Carmen Electra, Pamela Anderson and Denise Richards and wonder what is it about these women?? It’s simple. All you need is that one dress that’s short but not too short. That reveals a little but leaves the rest to the imagination. Remember that the following information is steered toward getting that man that you’ve been eyeing. This information should not be used daily.

The rule to finding a hot mini dress is that you should focus on one and ONLY one part of your body to show off. It is important that if you are showing off those sexy long legs of yours with a short flowing skirt or a tight hip hugging skirt, you SHOULD NOT wear a low cut shirt on top.

The next important rule is color. Research has shown that the color red is what catches a man’s attention. Researchers say that this is due to the fact that subconsciously men connect this color to sex. If you find red too bold to wear, steer toward less bold colors. It is important to stay away from pastels, as they steer toward the “cute” look.

This advice should be followed when going out at night. Walk out during the day to the supermarket or to work in a short mini dress and you might get tons of stares but this type of attention is not the type that attracts men. This is one of the most important lessons that readers could ever learn. Beautiful women are beautiful because they know that different occasions require different looks. Master this, and you will soon be the woman in the bar that all other women want to be and all men want to talk to.

Grace Chen started http://www.myrisquelingerie.com so that all women could feel sexy and beautiful.

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As this spring brings buds and blossoms galore, it’s clear that those trees, plants,
and flowers want to burst onto the stage with all their beautiful glory. It is also quite
evident that a new and exciting social change is springing forth for women as well.

Issues of gender equality come in so many forms; professional, relational, spiritual,
intellectual, and yes, even sexual. Traditional Western thought demands that women
scorn their sexuality, one of the most vital and enjoyable parts of life.

If you asked a woman in 1905, just one hundred years ago, if she was as sexually
satisfied as her partner, there would have no doubt been a variety of possible
responses. If she was taught that such talk was not “ladylike,” she may have shied
from an answer or stormed off in a pious huff. However, if you could coax an honest
reply, it would have probably entailed the required deference to the needs of her
husband.

However, there is a new season springing to life in America. With women now in
powerful positions in the media, new programs and commercials have a distinctively
feminine flare - the kind that can only be attributed to a strong woman who knows
what she wants and knows how to get it.

One example of this phenomenon is a recent McDonald’s commercial with a woman
who says that when she is eating her McGriddle and drinking some McDonald’s
coffee, she feels anything is possible and dreams of hiring a pool boy - though she
has no pool. How wonderfully scandalous! This commercial brilliantly hits home
with every woman because yes, we think about those types of things too.

I consider this commercial pioneering material. To have a man say such things is
traditionally acceptable, after all men do enjoy sex. But to have a woman say such
things breaks all social decorum, yet opens the doors of flagrant sexuality on one of
the last places to accept the woman in her real beauty - commercial marketing.

Commercial marketing has always portrayed the woman as either a sex object for
men or a Betty Crocker type, prompting several generations of women to constantly
reach for unachievable perfection projected by one delusional image or the other.
This medium has been slow to recognize the woman for her true self. I applaud
McDonald’s for this bold move. In my opinion, this single commercial has shattered
the 50s prototype and the sex object image into tiny fragments. My hope is this
commercial will set the precedence for future marketing.

One more very popular example of the changes taking place in the media
concerning women is the new hit show Desperate Housewives. This show is about
reality. When I watch this show I think to myself, “This is how real women are.”
Sure, it goes to extremes at times, as any television drama does. But it also portrays
women who are strong and intelligent.

One of the latest episodes for Desperate Housewives has a scene where Terri
Hatcher’s character wants to give certain man another chance but decides she can’t
bring herself to trust him enough to work things out. I didn’t expect that ending at
all. I was shocked that she didn’t go running back to those strong male arms, as is
oft the ending in most romantic dramas in America. But no, she was strong, she
was brave and she was intelligent. She was not needy, insecure or “desperate.” It
made me proud to be a woman.

Like this television character, women no longer wait to be told how they should feel
or what they should want. They are finally free to find out for themselves. For these
women, fulfillment comes in a variety of ways - be it through sexual, intellectual,
religious, political, or social pursuits. Today’s woman has many dimensions and I
applaud the media for finally catching up to those of us who have embraced our
many sides to find completion through exploring all that life has to offer.

It is high time the media targeted the women who are comfortable in our own skins.
Maybe this change is because they finally realize we are too intelligent to buy into
the absurd notion that we need to be recreated into some 18-year-old anorexic to
be beautiful. More likely, women are the ones calling the shots behind that camera.
Either way, a new season has definitely started and it promises the sweet ripening of
the woman.

About the Author:

Stella Ramsaroop is a western world traveler, a life-long student,
a wanna-be stargazer, and an Aquarius in all its forms (if you know what that
means). Her articles emphasize the importance of the continued development and
protection of gender equality in all aspects of a woman’s life.

Visit Stella’s Website at http://www.newsparade.com to read her current articles and to contribute your thoughts on women’s issues.

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